Isnit hard for.men to stay committed7/14/2023 ![]() But if it’s not coming from a genuine place, he will be able to sniff that out easily. You could try to act in a way that makes him free, and say the right things. Remember, he will be unconsciously asking the question: “Does she make me feel free?” He will also be feeling and looking for the right qualities in you. Because you can go out and recognize the right qualities in a masculine man, but the assessment is reciprocal. Her Side Of The Equationīefore you get to the man’s responsibility, and what to look for in him, this has to begin with YOU. ![]() I’ll cover both sides, but we have to begin with Hers first, for reasons I’ll explain. Because that implies the man even has a mission to support in the first place. So, this whole business of “go support his mission” isn’t solely on the woman’s shoulders. Now, there are two people in this relationship: The woman AND the man. If he wonders: “Does she make me feel more free in my life?” and the answer is “Yes”, then he will do anything to make being with you work. In other words, he wants to be with someone who makes him MORE FREE to be his fullest self. If he sees you as an ally in his mission, and in bringing his fully expressed self into the world, he will want to pull you close and stay by your side. If he sees you as a distraction from his mission, or a threat to it, he will push you away, either emotionally or physically. He needs to sense that there are no unconscious motives to restrain, diminish, or sabotage his growth. That could be related to health, spirituality, career, or vocation.įor him to feel compelled to be with you, h e needs to see clearly that you help support his mission in life. It’s the freedom to live whatever his deepest purpose is in the moment. It’s the freedom to execute his mission and achieve his goals. What I’m talking about is the freedom to fully express himself and his life potential. But that’s not it at all (though, yes, there are some people out there who do care about hooking up with other people.) At first glance, many people might assume that I’m talking about sexual freedom. It goes far beyond anything to do with physical looks, or what the sex life is like.īut “freedom” has a very broad definition here. But they intuitively know there’s one thing they need, above all else, in order to feel deeply, fully committed to a relationship. ![]() Not many guys are able to put this into words themselves. ![]() How do you get a strong, high quality man to want to commit to you? ![]()
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